I was married to a fix-it man for forty five years. He never wanted me to struggle so even with my own projects, if he saw I was having a hard time with it, he would jump in and take over.
So -- eventually, I fully embraced “I can’t.”
Then he died. And my daughter moved out of town for a while and I learned how to do lots of stuff myself.
After a wind storm, I got up one morning to find literally hundreds of twigs laying everywhere in the back yard. I was planning to something else later in the day but I knew from experience by the time I finished picking up all those twigs, I’d be too tired to go to whatever it was I had planned to do later. Then a lightbulb came on in my head. I got my grabber and within 45 minutes, I had it all picked up and deposited in a area to use as kindling for the chiminea.
In the front yard, Ronnie had made flowerbeds in the middle of the yard. He lined them with big natural rocks that we had gotten below the original spillway at Lake Wichita after they lowered the level of the lake. These made mowing a nightmare so I decided to do away with the flower beds, but most of the rocks were too heavy for me to lift so I devised another way to move them. I have a long handled four prong digger. I used this to roll the rocks into place. It worked great and while it was not easy, it was far easier than picking up the biggest rocks.
|Cara Brookins' amazing DIY house|
Two years ago at a writers’ conference in Oklahoma City, I met an amazing and interesting young woman named Cara Brookins. I was fascinated by her because – she and her two teenagers built their two story house from the ground up – by themselves. They poured the concrete, installed the plumbing and electrical wiring. They did it all with Do it Yourself videos on Youtube. She said most of what they used were instructional videos produced for Lowes and Home Depot.
I thought about Cara and the DIY videos one day after I did something I knew not to do. I emptied the gasoline can into the lawnmower. Moisture collects in the can and when you empty it, the water also goes in the mower. Well, midway through mowing the back yard, the mower sputtered and stopped and I couldn’t get it started again. So I went to youtube and searched for a video to show me how to get the gasoline out of the lawnmower.
The video I watched was way more complicated than I was willing to try, so I asked my sort of son in law to come fix it. He ambles over, puts a flat pan on the ground, takes off the gas cap, turns the lawnmower upside down, and all the gas ran out into the pan. He put the lawnmower upright, filled it with fresh gas and it started on the second pull. “That’s not how they did it on youtube,” I said.
He kind of grinned. “I didn’t go to youtube.”
|my 120 gallon water catchment system|
My daughter consulted diy videos when her iPhone quit because it got wet. She wasn’t due an update for another year and a new phone would cost two hundred dollars so she – being a fixit person like her dad, researched what was wrong with the phone on the internet, bought the parts and with the help of a diy video, she opened the phone and eventually got it fixed. She’s still using it.
When I decided I wanted to have a rain water storage system, I went to Youtube and searched “diy water storage” and up pops numerous videos from simple to complicated. So I showed several of them to my daughter. She sent me and her three year old son, Seth out to my sister’s house one afternoon and when we came back, I had this water catchment system.
I tend to tackle simplier things myself. I have a friend who has a beautiful, back yard. One of the interesting little tidbits she has added is hanging solar lights. These were individual lanterns hanging by a single string from the branches of her big fruitless mulberry tree.
|Home made solar lights|
I wanted some. She said they come six to a box for $59.99 at Home Depot.
We spent most of one day looking for those lights online and in the physical stores. Then I realized that the fancy little lanterns she had are not really appropriate for my yard. I need something with more of a country feel, so I went to youtube and searched for “DIY hanging solar lights.”
And up pops solar lights made with Mason jars. I bought 12 Kerr jars, Walmart didn’t have Masons and 10 cheap solar lights at Walmart, plus a clear 30 lbs test fishing line. I spent $25 and made 10 solar lights. My sort of son in law brought over his extension ladder and hung them in the trees.
I’ll never build a house with videos from youtube but I will certainly continue to learn how to do lots of other things and so can you.